Is this our Destiny or what ?

Why does it happen to people who want to prove a point in front of someone and tell this world that there is somebody named “XYZ” who also exist  . when people feel desperate and show what they are made up off and what they can do as challenge all conventional attributes present and bring new change to our lives . people say dreams often  comes true but god knows who are these people and what it takes to reach that stage or point where you can say that you have achieved something and established your unique identity apart from your parents .you live your whole life thinking that you will do something which will make you and fore mostly your parents proud while most of our life we spent doing things we don’t want to do , in a way or other we  are compromising at different stages in our life whether its your career path or job .you are forced to do things which you don’t like sometimes its pressure from your parents ,or peers  and sometimes its bigger force then these i.e. your destiny which forces you to perform or do things not liked by you .

Heard  somewhere that “you should look for brilliance not success “ its sounds very  good to our ears but is it realistic and one can follow this principle in his/her life , don’t think  that’s true in our lives where certificates and degrees matter so much that brilliance or knowledge doesn’t stand anywhere near  and our system is such that you will be only considered when you fulfill all their criteria’s.

It doesn’t matter  how much mathematics you know but what matters is how much do you have scored  in your metric and higher secondary exams , companies like TCS , INFOSYS , UNILEVER and so on  would love to see your scores through  out your  academic career .is it written somewhere that a guy who has scored above 60% through out will be the one who will be outstanding  and his work will be of higher grade still they are following things .people who themselves don’t know what they want in their life gets everything which people who works hard only dreams of.

Interviews which are meant to analyze skills and ability of the candidate  but what happens is only referrals and donations are discussed ,that’s sad for people who are really interested and works hard to fulfill  their dreams.

Finally , I can only say that we should start something on our own lets be entrepreneurs  and change this system for forsake  and for the next generations.